Tuesday, January 10, 2012

Should I be worried that my boyfriend have a thing for my now ex friend?

Me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year, I never cheated but wasn't the best girlfriend I could've been but I would cook for him and clean his house I was there through alot of his troubles and he treated me like his wife I wanted to wait to get married. I'm 25 and he's 31 divorced with two kids I have never been married and don't have any children. About three weeks he started changing a little 1st he changed his facebook status to single, then he said he was having a family reunion but was inviting his coworkers and if i didn't like it not to come, I asked him if he wanted o take a break he said no he wanted to work it out, a few days later we went out with a friend of mine and she kept talking about my outfit like why am I always matching she acted like she hated that I was dressed up she's a big girl who wears skimpy clothes not at all attractive and gets mad when smaller women get the attention.she was going out of her way to laugh and talk to him which I didn't mind we go in the club and he ignores me to talk to her. I go to the bathroom and get a text that my best friend died I ran out the club crying he eventually came out but I told him to leave me alone. He goes back in I eventually go in and he comes up with her and one of her friends following him. She stays away from me like she's guilty of something. My boyfriend and her kept whispering to eachother then I asked him what was going on he said I just hated they were people persons and he didn't wat to leave till she left. He then wanted to go upstairs to her apartment to use her bathroom. We had a argument after that and I dropped it he then emailed her on facebook thanking her for the night and she sent him her number and he friended her and blocked me cause I unfriended him. The next morning I asked about it and he and I got into a fight I broke up with him and we didn't speak for a few days. We made up but he ended up saying she reminded him of his ex then I asked if he was talking to her he said no he hadn't spoken to her since that night. I found out from an email from her that they had spoken and he finally admitted it but said he only talked to her to ask her if she hacked his email account. We are trying to work on the relationship but I don't know what to do. I think he still talks to her or is interested in her I'm suppose to be leaving for the military soon. I need o know what I should do about us first.

Why are arcade machines so expensive?

all it is, is a single 8 bit game on a bright LCD screen held together by wood with a joystick and a on and a quarter slot. i doubt i would get an arcade machine but it would be nice, i remember playing on a pacman arcade machine a ling time ago at my uncles. it costs about 2000 bucks for a table top arcade machine, and it would have to be played about 8000 times by customers in order to make any money, uming that you charged people to use it 8000 times, i think i remember there was a way to play the arcade machine for free if you are the owner or have the key, i remember a on on top of the machine at my uncles house, and each press gives you a credit

I dont want to die alone...?

im a 20 year old guy, and met this 20 year old girl on facebook, and were both normal, and have eveyrthing in common. during the summer (2010) we texted and talked occasionally, and eventually talked on skype and wrote letters to eachother in the mail. we both stated we really wanna hang, and feel we can definitley relate. it was finals week for college students (im not in school, she is), and i hadnt texted her for about two weeks, and sometimes we go weeks without talking because we get busy. and today i texted her asking how finals were, and she said good and shes happy the year is half over. i said "awesome. glad you figured out the school thing!" because she was deciding whether to drop out or finish the year, because she hates school and wants to travel. and she never responded to that text, then a few days later on Christmas 2010 today she sent me a text saying "hello love!!! merry christmas!" before you think she wants to date me (not sure), she says i love you to all her friends, and after we texted a few minutes about gifts and stuff, then i asked (because we weve talked about talking on the phone a few weeks ago), if she wants to talk over winter break sometime... and she never responded. shes done this many times before where i'll text her something and she wont respond, than a few weeks or days later she'll text me, or i will text her and she'll respond.. .one of the two. so why is this?? could it be its christmas break? i mean she stated that she wants to talk on the phone soon and that she definitely wants to hang and travel with me, as shes also stated firmly... but it boggles me that she doesnt respond to certain texts....does she wanna hang or not?? did i ruin things?? everytime she ignores a text i send, and i wait a 10 days or so and text her, she responds liek nothing... i dont get it, did i ruin things

MEAN MOM PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!?

Ok, both of my parents are super strict about grades. I'm not even allowed to get B's! My mom however is the most strict. She's always saying that education should be my number 1 priority in life. Right now I'm in 7th grade and struggling with OCD (obsessive compulsive disorder) which she doesn't know about because if i told her about my mental issues she wouldn't believe me nor would she take me to see a phycologist. She would just get more mad if I told her. I wish I had a kind mom that was willing to listen to my problems and help me fix them. I hate my mom. She puts way too much pressure on me to get straight A's which is especially hard for me with my OCD and all. But somehow i have managed to get principals list on every report card untill now... I got 1 B and an A in everything else. The one only B i have ever recieved on a report card. When my mom found out she was pissed. She doesn't talk to me now and she hardly looks at me. She grounded me and according to her I'm not allowed to go anywhere at all untill I finish the rest of my 7th grade and 8th grade year with all A's on all of my upcoming report cards. That's over a freaking year!! And today she told me not to tell her I love you. What the hell is wrong with this woman!! All this BS over 1 freaking B!!!!! Ontop of that this is the ONLY B I've ever gotten. My mom just expects me to be perfect. And she is always always comparing me to other kids. I've never been good enough for her. All I want are parents that understand me parents that won't punish me like this for things as minor as a frickin B which shouldn't be considered a bad grade in the first place! I all ready have enough problems in school I'm always getting picked on and I have no friends. Why do I have to come home to more problems? I don't deserve this crap from someone who should be my main supporter and best friend, my mother. All I want are proud parents who appreciate my hard work. I used to cut myself and even tried killing myself at one point, because I hate myself for being unnatractive and imperfect and not good enough and different from everyone else. I sometimes feel like killing myself to make my mom feel bad for all the **** she's put me through. She said I needed to get all A's to be accepted into the IB program in high school. Does this one B really mean I won't get accepted? Can anybody help me get through all this?

On a mortage free home if you default on a unsecured loan can you be forced to sell the house as payment?

I own my home free and clear and can not make payments on a unsecured loan. Can my house be taken as pay ment or can i be forced to sell it to repay the loan?

My Mom Says This Is PMS. What Do You Think? If So, How Can I Make Easier?

Okay the past few days Ive been getting a full 8-10 hours of sleep and today after school i crashed. Ive been having cramps off and on. Ive been really hungry and i dont know why. I was very snappy at people when I got home. I didn't want to be bothered now Im like trying to stay awake to finish my project. (I am a virgin so that eliminates the pregnancy thing) and my period is due anytime next week. Is there anything I can do to keep me awake and control my attitude before it gets me in trouble? I have a good hold on it, I just want to see if theres other things I can do.

Comments on my stock exchange team?

i like your picks, farmar will only keep improving and he might even start next season, good job not overpaying for garnett or duncan, they are getting old and you should expect to see a drop off from their stats, kamen is a beast, expect his scoring to reach almost 20ppg, gasol is great and so is williams